Question: Is there a term in Japanese for not playing the expected response to a kikashi?
From Attack and Defense:
Black resists being forced by playing . This stone is much more useful than simply connecting at a. White cannot cut directly without being captured.
If white persists with , black connects his stones anyway and white is heavy. Making a kikashi stone heavy is a major error. White is far better off not playing here in the first place, so long as black resists.